We have no way to skip over points that are obviously too far away. What if we could organize the space itself so that when we search, we can immediately rule out entire regions?
Those with growth-based views, Carroll argues, still want something special, but expect rough patches. "They ask… what can they do to make their relationship better, have improvement and have growth?"
，这一点在同城约会中也有详细论述
"One minute on a Saturday she's playing with the dog, Sunday she's gone to work, Monday night she's in a coma."
Running benchmarks